If you had some special plans to marry in Feb, just keep them. The FBI background check will take at around 12 to 15 weeks to get back anyway and you must send that in with the application for Permanent residence. My advice is to take it slow doing the apps. I know all about the desire to just get them out! Don\'t slack, but don\'t rush through them. You have to be meticulous! One mistake can cost you lots of time, money, and sanity. You have plenty of time so just slow down and take the applications one day at a time.
Here are a few things to keep in mind that will help answer some of your questions.
-FBI must me mailed away for, and will take around 12 weeks to get back so that gives you 12 weeks to marry and work on your apps. Make 12 weeks your current goal for those things and DONT RUSH through the paperwork! Also once you have it it is good for 6 months
-Medicals are usually pretty easy to get whenever you need them and they are good for a year.
-you automatically have 6 month to stay in Canada when you enter unless they stamped your passport with a time limit. look in your passport. if they did not indicate a date you must leave then as of now you are golden for 6 months whether you get married or not. Also, it does not matter that you told the border guard that you were only staying for a couple of weeks.
- getting married has no bearing on your visitor status. When you get married this, or next month, you dont have to take any measures for changing your visiting status simply because you are married
- 6 months to the day from when you entered Canada is when your visit expires. you must have applied for an extension before then. The rule of thumb and what CIC stresses is for you to send in you application for extension 30 days before the day your stay expires. So do that. therefor, 5 months from now is when you will by applying for an extension.
- when it comes time to apply for an extension, depending on your situation, the reason you will specify that you want to extend your stay will vary. I imagine these would be the most likely situations you will be in at that time:
- You are married and have already submitted your application for PR: In this scenario you will state that you are extending you visitor status because you have submitted an application for permanent residence and would like to remain with your husband while awaiting a decision.
- You are married and have not yet submitted your application for PR: Tell them that you are preparing your application for permanent residence and that you wish to remain with your husband while preparing the application and while awaiting a decision once the application is submitted. (also in the scenario it is a good idea to pay all the immigration application fees ahead of time and send in COPIES of the receipts to prove that you truly intend to file for permanent residency. I stress that you do NOT send in original receipts even if you just pay online and print them out at home because i made that mistake and it has cost me tons of time and some money)
- when specifying how long you want your extension for, ask for one year. That is the limit to how long you can ask for.
-People in this kind of situation are usually approved without a problem. BUT even if on the slight chance the extension is denied, keep in mind that you can then apply for a restoration. Extensions and restorations each take months and months to come back and while awaiting a decision on them you have \"implied status\". So even if you have been here for more than 6 months, as long as they are working on your extension or restoration application you can still legally be here until they make a decision. I am on implied status right now. My last extension expired Dec 1. I mailed in my extension mid November. I haven\'t heard anything yet. So I sit here on implied status and its completely legit and legal.
- you do not need to go anywhere in order to apply for an extension. Simply print the application, pay the fees, gather your supporting documents, and mail it in. all the information you need is right here
http://www.cic.gc.ca/english/information...isitor.asp .
-the application will ask how you are supporting yourself. It will ask how much money you have available to you and you may specify that your husband is supporting you. including proof of his income and a letter from his swearing to support you helps. This is what I have always done. I have been approved even what I stated that I have 0 dollars to my name. As long as he is supporting you its ok.
So for now, please try TRY to relax a little. Understand that you have a lot of paperwork ahead of you and that you have time to work on it. Take your time, go through it slowly with a fine tooth comb. Ask any questions you must ask here and search previous posts as well. I can guarantee just about any question you have has been asked a bunch of times already. For now try to enjoy your time with your love. You are about to get married and you have plenty of time ahead of you when you know youll be together. ENJOY IT!
At the same time don\'t feel bad about being scared or anxious. We all are. lol we know how you feel! This has been the most trying time of my life. I simply can not WAIT until its over!!