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[b]Bride left broke by alien husband[/b]
By Michele Mandel Toronto Sun
http://tinyurl.com/mze9z

Cindy thought she had found her soulmate, the man of her dreams, a father to her young daughter.

The Toronto accountant had him met over the Internet, introduced by mutual friends. Theirs was a long distance relationship -- Eduardo lived in Cuba where he was manager of a department store -- but they spoke every day and she flew in often to visit him. When he proposed after seven months, Cindy truly believed their love was forever.

They married in Havana on Dec. 14, 2004. In their wedding photo, the dark and handsome groom hugs her close as the beautiful blonde bride beams with joy.

The 33-year-old sits alone in her East York apartment, barely able to glance at those photos of a mirage.

She spent the next 15 months filing all the paper work to bring her husband here. She admits to a few nagging doubts; she had heard the horror stories of marriage scams. He assured her that those cases involved Cubans who worked in the hotels in hopes of snaring vulnerable Canadian tourists. He was different. He really loved her and if she wanted, they could make a life together in Cuba.

But when Cindy actually considered that offer, Eduardo suddenly backpedalled. Her daughter would have to attend an international school in Havana, he said, and where would they get the expensive tuition? His argument made sense, and so she continued to sponsor him here, sending immigration proof of their marriage, photos of the wedding, evidence of their daily correspondence.

Approved at last, Eduardo arrived here March 10, and was promptly given a Canadian social insurance number, a health card and permanent residency.

Less than three months later, he was gone.


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I agree with 3 year waiting period before PR is issued.
unless you were sentence to at least one year in jail, let's say something like DUI, small crime like sell small amout weed here, you won't get deport at all.

If that's kids, let's say you can get away with murder.
Maybe one day community service.
you are hijacking again...........
WOW sad story. I do think 3 years seems like an awful long time to wait to get residency. I think this case is a minority. I would hate for one bad apple to ruin the bunch.
supergirlie Wrote:WOW sad story. I do think 3 years seems like an awful long time to wait to get residency. I think this case is a minority. I would hate for one bad apple to ruin the bunch.


don't forget to include the time you spend in Canada before PR.
For example, I live close to five year in Canada, not one day missing in Canada. It should count as half.
the instances of fraud are so high (I heard something like 40%) that they have some choices to make. Either put us through endless screening, or change how the PR is issued. As the Canadian needing to trust someone... I would rather live with the 3 year rule than a broken heart and I would rather live with a delayed PR than endless scrutiny of my relationship.
Joohliya Wrote:the instances of fraud are so high (I heard something like 40%) that they have some choices to make. Either put us through endless screening, or change how the PR is issued. As the Canadian needing to trust someone... I would rather live with the 3 year rule than a broken heart and I would rather live with a delayed PR than endless scrutiny of my relationship.

you know what? a lot of people don't really wanna live here even though they apply PR, just for back up plan like H2 from states.
You heard people asking everyday that "when is the latest date to landed"
"how many years that i have to stay here."

oh, come on, it's called PR, it's not Temp resident.
if you don't wanna live here, why you apply at the first place then.

And people like me, living here for so long. Have entire post-graduate education and work experience in Canada, still have so much trouble processing PR.
thats a very said story! I agree with the waiting period for PR. Australia has a good system. If your been married to your spouse for less then 5 years they only give your spouse a working visa and then only if your still together after 2 years do the grant PR status. If your been married for 5 or more years PR status is granted right away
Unfortunately the three year waiting period wouldn't save you from a broken heart either. I don't know. I think they put us through endless screening and we have to let CIC look into our most private correspondences to proof our relationship is genuine. There will always be somebody who is determined enough to take advantage of the system, no matter if that means having to pretend for an additional three years. I think it is hard enough on all of us as it is and they shouldn't put an additional waiting period in just to get PR. How would you handle people wanting to visit home in this time? I sure am glad that I am a PR now and don't have to fear any longer that something happens to a family member back home and I couldn't even go over there if I would have to e.g. for attending a funeral.
they can come live with you, and work but if the marriage fails - they go home. Knowing that, maybe the jerks that take advantage of Canadians might be less willing to do it.

One better. if your marriage fails and you go back home, your forfeit any future sponsorship opportunity.
This topic is really difficult. Take me as an example. I came over to Canada and brought my teenage daughter with me to live with my boyfriend. If our relationship SHOULD go wrong within 3 years you want me to take my daughter out of school again and go back to my country where I left everything and have nothing to go back to (because I gave up my life over there to come over here), instead of continuing to live here and work and pay taxes? I don't know. It just doesn't seem fair. What if (God forbid) my boyfriend finds somebody else he likes during that time? He could just SEND me home then. Sounds really fair.
we have to do something to deter the users.

We complain about the scrutiny and we complain about how long we wait. We live with both because 40% of applications are fraudulent. So what do we do - say 'oh well'.

I know it does not sound fair. Neither is the wait people are enduring, or the scrutiny they face from CIC or the fact that if you sweet talk some schlocky Canadian... you can bypass all qualifications for a great life in Canada without accountability.

I don't know the answer. Obviously CIC doesn't either!!!
I don't know the answer either, just wanted to point out that if we would change the system in the suggested way it would get even worse for the honest people and you know how that goes: people who are determined enough will always find a way to abuse the system.
actually, the honest people would have nothing to worry about. It would mean asking people who are 'in love' to stay that way for 3 years- or at least remain together for 3 years. If you don't want to do that, CIC does not want to consider it a spousal sponsorship.

just a thought!
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